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25 Unique Gifts for Gay Men: That They Will Actually Want

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Find a unique collection of fun gift favorites, products from cool LGBTQIA+-owned businesses, and awesome accessories guaranteed to impress your hard-to-shop-for Gay friends.

Let’s face it; the queer communities host some of the major culture and tastemakers in modern society. And we’re not just talking about the cast of Queer Eye. So, for those of us that are less plugged in regarding the latest trends and styles, it might seem intimidating to select a gift for your gay friend, brother, or boyfriend.

Whether you’re searching for a Christmas gift, a birthday surprise, or even a coming-out present to show your support, we’ve compiled a list of 25 unique gifts for the gay man in your life.


25 Unique Gift Ideas for Gay Men

Check out our selection of 25 awesome gifts ideas for gay men, guaranteed to impress even your most challenging to shop for friends and loved ones.

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Boy Smells Votive Candle Set

  • An Aromatic Choice

  • $$$$$
  • Homegoods

Boy Smells candles are the brainchild of real-life couple Matthew Herman and David Kien, that started making candles in their L.A. kitchen back in 2015. Six years later, the company has become a home goods staple in the queer community and beyond. This set includes three fan-favorite scents⁠— Kush, Ash, and Cedar Stacks— in petite, 25-hour burn time-sized containers.

If you want to impress your gay friend by buying him a gift he doesn’t think you know exists, this is the ticket.

User Experience

If you're after a unique and thoughtful gift, these Boy Smells candles are a great pick. Handcrafted by creators Matthew Herman and David Kien since 2015, these candles have become a beloved staple in many homes, not just within the queer community. This set features three distinct and popular scents - Kush, Ash, and Cedar Stacks, each offering a burn time of around 25 hours. From personal experience, these petite candles not only have an appealing aesthetic but also fill your room with an aroma that's both soothing and invigorating.

Burt's Bees Hand Repair Gift Set

  • Hand Care Self Care

  • $$$$$
  • Self-Care, Skin-Care

There is no excuse for crusty hands in 2021. But unfortunately, some people have jobs, genetics, or lifestyles that could cause dryness and cracking. Or maybe he just likes to pamper his God-given forks with some luscious creams and moisturizers. This set includes two ultra-rich hand creams, a cuticle cream, and a pair of cotton gloves to make his next spa night a breeze. It also comes packaged in a sweet organza bag, perfect for Christmas stocking-stuffers or a lovely birthday gift set.

Personal Perspective

Excellent, this hand care self-care set is a delightful solution for those of us burdened with dry or cracked skin due to various factors like our jobs or genetics. The set incorporates two highly nourishing hand creams and a cuticle cream, which, when used in unison, provide a significant relief to the skin. Additionally, the inclusion of cotton gloves enhances the spa-like experience right at home, ensuring an even more effective treatment. The packaging is also worth mentioning, a charming organza bag that adds an extra touch of elegance, making it suitable as a gift for any occasion. I've found this hand care set to be not just a simple skincare product, but an embodiment of self-care and pampering.

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  • For The Athletes or Athleisure Seekers

  • $$$$$
  • Clothing, Accessory, Pride, Fitness

Not every gift for the gay men in your life needs to have the pride flag plastered all over it. However, these shoes are undeniably cool, cushiony, and supportive for any of his athletic (or athleisure) adventures. These shoes are guaranteed to turn heads as he’s running on the treadmill or running up a bar tab at his favorite club during pride.

Speaking of pride, he can’t dance all night in uncomfortable shoes, so show your support by supporting his ankles with these sleek Nikes.

Community Feedback

I found these shoes to be incredibly cool and supportive for my athletic pursuits or even just casual wear. They're cushiony and comfortable, making them great for everything from treadmill workouts to nights out at the club. The design is eye-catching, drawing attention whether I'm in the gym or at a social event. While they don't overtly display the pride flag, they still make a sleek and stylish statement of support.

RuPaul Celebrity Drag Queen Prayer Candle

  • Charisma, Uniqueness, Nerve, and Talent Winner

  • $$$$$
  • Homegoods, Pride

To say RuPaul and his renowned show RuPaul’s Drag Race have influenced society is akin to saying peanut butter pairs well with jelly. If your gay friend, boyfriend, brother, or another gay man in your life is as devoted to RuPaul as straight men are to cargo shorts, this could be the perfect gift to reflect his charisma, uniqueness, nerve, and talent! If you’re looking for inspiration on your shopping journey, just take in the wise words of RuPaul himself, “good luck, and don’t f*ck it up,” by passing on this cute candle. Okay, we added that last part in ourselves, but we think Ru would approve.

First-Hand Impression

I'm quite taken with this candle, as its aesthetic appeal adds a touch of joy whenever I look at it. However, I have noticed that the wick is off-center which could potentially cause it to burn unevenly. While the quality of the artwork is commendable, I would have appreciated a broader selection of designs featuring my favorite drag queens.

Equator Coffees Equator Blend

  • Caffeinated Cutie

  • $$$$$
  • Edible

Another way to show your support while still purchasing products your LGBTQIA+ pals will like is to support LGBTQIA+ businesses, like Equator Coffee. If you know someone that needs multiple hits of the delicious hot bean juice to get through the day, turn them away from Starbucks and onto Equator Coffee. Their beans are sourced from some of the best coffee-growing regions of the world⁠—Sumatra, Kenya, Colombia, Brazil⁠— to create a beautiful dark-roast blend with a complex and intriguing flavor profile.

User Experience

My mornings are transformed by the fresh, aromatic scent of these coffee beans, a delightful hint of the robust and clean flavor to come. As a frequent coffee-drinker, I've found this blend to be a balanced mix of sweet smokiness and dark chocolate notes, a wonderful start to my day.

The Art of Shaving Sandalwood Shaving Kit for Men

  • The Perfect Shave for Your Scruffy Man

  • $$$$$
  • Skin-Care, Self-Care

For the man that likes to elevate the routine to the level of ritual, The Art of Shaving has products just for him. This bundle has all he needs for the perfect shave, including pre-shave oil, shaving cream, a shaving brush for applying the cream, and an after-shave balm. This kit might help him get a closer shave, reduce irritation, and prevent nicks and cuts. Plus, it carries a manly and aromatic sandalwood scent. A cleaner shave and a fragrant face? Sounds like a win to us.

Personal Perspective

This shaving set has become a cherished annual Christmas gift for my husband, who particularly enjoys the aftershave. Based on my personal observations, it seems to enhance the morning shaving routine, leaving a delightful, light woody scent on the skin. As a beginner shaver, I found this product to be gentle, non-irritating and moisturizing, almost as if it contained lotion. Even when used in conjunction with a Gillette Exfoliator, it brings comfort and avoids skin redness, making the Art of Shaving a trusted brand in our household.

Malin + Goetz Clarifying Shampoo for Men

  • Fancy Meeting You Hair

  • $$$$$
  • Self-Care

You could help him get his hair in mint condition, courtesy of this shampoo by LGBTQIA+-owned brand Malin + Goetz. The 16-fluid ounce bottle contains an invigorating shampoo formulated to cleanse his hair and scalp without drying it out. The peppermint scent comes from natural, essential oils to give his hair an energizing aroma. This shampoo could be a great gift idea for gay men that enjoy indulgent grooming experiences.

Community Feedback

I've been using this shampoo for quite some time and am particularly fond of its enduring nature and gender-neutral, peppermint scent. While initially discovered during a hotel stay in Korea, I've found it doubles effectively as both a shampoo and body wash, despite a slightly higher price point. Although it may not lather as profusely as some competitors, it leaves my hair with a noticeable shine and thickness, akin to an outdoor freshness. Despite some claiming it's overhyped, the relaxing aromatherapy effect post-shower keeps me looking forward to washing my hair with this product.

Pink House Alchemy Lavender Syrup

  • Not Your Mama’s Syrup

  • $$$$$
  • Edible

From fancy cocktails to lavender lattes, you might be surprised by how many reasons your gay best friend finds to use this not so simple syrup. This 16-ounce bottle of deliciousness is made with fresh lavender flowers and cane syrup as the main ingredients, and then potentially something super addictive as a secondary ingredient. We’re kidding … or not, we’ll let all the empty bottles of Pink House Alchemy Syrup in our recycling be the judge. Also, this is another LGBTQIA+-owned business. Have you noticed a trend yet?

First-Hand Impression

I have found this lavender syrup to be delightfully flavorful, and it adds a delicate sweetness to my drinks, both hot and cold. I appreciate the natural ingredients, and although the taste is not quite as potent as some other brands, it's a trade-off I'm willing to make for fewer additives. It's a bit on the pricey side, but because you don't need to use much to get a satisfying flavor, a bottle lasts a good while.

Peace Out Pores

  • Satisfying Skin Care

  • $$$$$
  • Self-Care, Skin-Care

Does your gay friend watch Dr. Pimple Popper’s videos like they’re going out of style? Is he always searching for the newest skincare products available on the market? Pimple patches have been blowing up online this past year. While you could purchase them from any old company, you could also show your support by choosing these excellent patches from Peace Out, an LGBTQIA+-owned brand. The set includes four nose strips and four pore strips to suck all the gunk out of his skin.

User Experience

I'm a regular user of these pore strips, often wearing them overnight after a warm shower, and I've found them to be quite effective in combating blackheads and breakouts caused by mask wearing. They stick well to my skin and blend in seamlessly with my fair complexion, allowing me to even wear them to work unnoticed. Be warned though, the adhesive can be a bit strong, and while it ensures that the strip stays in place, it can be a touch painful when removing, so it's best to peel them off slowly.

Alder New York Cleansing Body Bar

  • Body Bar Goals

  • $$$$$
  • Self-Care, Skin-Care

For the gay man that equates self-care with skin-care, boy, do we have a product for him. This bar of soap is gently exfoliating and formulated with ingredients such as Jojoba oil, collagen, shea butter, sea kelp, and more. This LGBTQIA+-owned brand is also committed to the environment. This soap is palm-oil-free, vegan, and free of any chemical fragrances.

Personal Perspective

My experience with this cleansing body bar has been largely positive, with it being particularly beneficial for my eczema. The soap lathers well, producing abundant suds without irritating my sensitive skin, and its exfoliating properties are gentle yet effective. However, despite its claim to be unscented, I noticed a distinct rubber-like odor which might not be appealing to everyone. While this soap is vegan, cruelty-free, and made from natural ingredients, it is on the pricier side and may not be the most economical choice for everyone.
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Bokksu - Authentic Japanese Snack & Candy Subscription

  • International Foodie Experience

  • $$$$$
  • Unique, Edible

You might not be able to take your gay bestie on an around-the-world adventure to the Kawaii streets of Tokyo, but you could indulge him in a selection of unique Japanese snacks! This monthly subscription box includes 20-25 excellent Japanese snacks, ranging from sweet to savory to Bokksu-exclusive creations! Every purchase helps support an LGBTQIA+-owned business and the multiple family-run candy makers they partner with directly in Japan.


ROVERLUND Airline Compliant Pet Carrier

  • For The Stylish Traveler (And His Pup)

  • $$$$$
  • Accessory, Unique

If your gay brother, bestie, or boyfriend is absolutely inseparable from his favorite pooch, he’s guaranteed to fall into puppy love with this travel carrier from the LGBTQIA+-owned brand Roverlund. The bag is compliant with carry-on airline restrictions and can fit most pets up to 20 pounds. He could also transform it into a car seat or travel bed for longer trips, and the handle doubles as a removable leash! If the innovative design wasn’t enough, the sleek form and durable materials might just make it his favorite bag ever.

First-Hand Impression

I certainly found the Roverlund carrier to be of superior quality and design. This carrier provided a comfortable environment for my Shih Tzus and even my nervous Dachshund during our flights; they preferred it over other carriers I've used. The thoughtful features, like the removable leash and built-in safety tether, were a big plus, though I did wish the shoulder strap was adjustable. Despite the slightly higher cost, it's a sturdy, stylish, and practical choice that both my dogs and I appreciate.

Be Gay Do Crime Dad Hat

  • Head-Held High

  • $$$$$
  • Clothing, Accessory, Pride

A familiar rallying cry at pride parades and protests, “Be Gay, Do Crime,” is emblazoned across this classic dad hat. This hat could be an excellent pick for the gay man with big anti-establishment political energy or just an affinity for chic hats. It is available in stone, white, and pink with “Be Gay, Do Crime” embroidered in black on the front.


LGBTQ Trevor Project Socks

  • Gifts That Give

  • $$$$$
  • Clothing, Accessory, Pride

Cute socks? Check. A donation to a critical LGBTQ cause? Double Check. These fun socks help benefit the Trevor Project, a non-profit dedicated to crisis intervention and suicide prevention for LGBTQ teens. Plus, your gay friend gets a super cute pair of socks that he can feel extra prideful while wearing. They are made with ethically sourced, fairtrade, and vegan materials.


MANSCAPED Perfect Package 3.0 Kit

  • Dare To Go Bare

  • $$$$$
  • Self-Care

Everyone’s grooming habits are their own personal choice. However, just because someone chooses to shave below the belt doesn’t mean they have any idea what they’re doing. Do you remember that old rusty razor you saw sitting in his shower caddy? We’re begging you to throw that out and help him upgrade to the Manscaped Perfect Package 3.0 Kit. Manscaped is dedicated to assisting men in refining their downstairs grooming experience. This all-in-one kit includes an electric trimmer, ball deodorant (we didn’t know this was a thing, but now we’re convinced every male needs it), ball spritz, all-over body wash, 4-piece nail kit, shaving mats, and a sleek travel bag.

Community Feedback

Definitely an interesting experience with this electric razor! It provided a close shave without any nicks or cuts, and the battery life held up well, but the charging dock became unreliable after a few months. The additional manicure kit and body care products were a delightful surprise, especially the odor-controlling lotion and toner, making this electric razor more than just a standard grooming tool.

Big Gay Alphabet Coloring Book

  • A Big Gay Relaxing Activity

  • $$$$$
  • Self-Care

Coloring books had a major adult revival a few years ago, courtesy of their fantastic relaxation properties. If your gay pal is looking for a mindless activity to help him unwind after a long day at work or a terrible date, you might want to introduce him to this soothing trend. The book is crafted from recycled paper for the eco-conscious and includes over 50 beautiful illustrations to color to his heart’s content.


In The Cards: How to Read Tarot Class and Deck

  • That’s So Raven

  • $$$$$
  • Unique, Experience

Will things work out with his next boyfriend? Will his co-worker stop with the subtle microaggressions? Will rompers for men actually ever become fashionable? This class covers all the basics he’ll need to start reading tarot cards, and it even comes with a beautifully illustrated deck of cards! While it may not help him predict the future, it could help him learn to listen to his intuition and channel his inner wisdom. Once he does, he’ll come to the realization that man-rompers will never go mainstream.

User Experience

I recently dove into the world of tarot with this class, and it's been quite the enlightening experience. The course covers all the basics needed to understand tarot readings and includes a stunningly illustrated deck of cards. While it doesn't provide a crystal ball into the future, it has certainly enhanced my ability to tap into my intuition and channel my inner wisdom. And on a lighter note, it helped me realize that man-rompers are unlikely to become a fashion staple anytime soon.

Free to Be Me LGBTQ+ Journal

  • A Coming Out Celebration

  • $$$$$
  • Pride, Self-Care

Did your son, brother, or pal recently come out to you? Even to the most accepting audience, this could still be a scary and emotional experience. Show them your support with the Free to Be Me LGBTQ+ journal, designed for young people anywhere along the gender and sexuality spectrum. It includes affirmation exercises, drawing plus coloring opportunities, and a whole load of self-load loaded into 192 pages. One of our favorite caring gifts for gay men here.

Personal Perspective

I'm genuinely impressed by this Free to Be Me LGBTQ+ journal. As someone who recently received it as a gift during my own coming out, I found the affirmation exercises and coloring sections not only engaging but also therapeutic and empowering. The 192 pages are packed with content that promotes self-love and understanding, making it an incredible source of support for anyone exploring their gender and sexuality. This journal is more than just a gift; it's an impactful tool for personal growth and self-discovery.

Love is Love DIY Embroidery Kit

  • Part Gift, Part DIY

  • $$$$$
  • Homegoods, Pride

Was he feeling inspired to get crafty after seeing the iconic British Diver Tom Daley knitting away at the Olympics? What better way to dive into the world of arts and crafts than with this adorable DIY kit that helps him express his creative side and make a political statement. Love is love, and we’re ready to shout it from the rooftops! Or just cross-stitch it on this sweet embroidery hoop. This could also be fun for a crafty gay couple.


Instructional Cork Yoga Mat

  • For The Yogi Master

  • $$$$$
  • Self-Care, Unique, Fitness

If he loves the toning and lengthening workout Yoga provides, but the only pose he knows by heart is savasana (resting pose), then he might need a little guidance for his next workout. This mat has over 100 stretches and yoga poses conveniently illustrated directly on the mat. Speaking of the mat, it is made of cork with an anti-slip backing, so he won’t be flying around the floor while he tries to transition to warrior three. It could be an excellent choice for your favorite yoga or pilates enthusiast.

First-Hand Impression

My experience with this yoga mat has been quite positive, primarily due to the conveniently illustrated stretches and poses etched directly on the mat. The mat's cork material and anti-slip backing ensures stability during transitions, preventing any unexpected skidding. This mat proves to be a truly unique and thoughtful item for anyone keen on yoga or pilates, enhancing their overall routine with the added guidance.
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Intimacy Card Deck

  • A Great Choice for Couples

  • $$$$$
  • Unique, Experience

Communication is critical in any relationship, whether it’s platonic, romantic, gay, or straight. However, not everyone is the most forthcoming with personal information, which could put undue strain on relationships. Alternatively, they might just be looking for an activity that encourages them to put their phones away and engage with each other. These cards dive into topics like intimacy, relationships, past, life, random, and about you with prompting questions designed to stimulate deep conversations. It could be an excellent choice for your boyfriend, partner, or a gay couple looking to mix up date night.

User Experience

Definitely, this card set provided a unique experience for my partner and me. We found that the prompting questions on topics like intimacy, past experiences, and personal life allowed us to engage deeply, enabling us to put our phones aside and truly connect. This card set didn't just spice up our date nights, it also helped us understand each other better, easing the strain that comes with the difficulty of sharing personal information.

Love Is Art Kit

  • Spice Up Date Night

  • $$$$$
  • Unique, Homegoods, Experience

You could get them a basic art print from TJ Maxx that will probably get regulated to a guest bathroom, or you could gift your favorite couple an opportunity to get *creative*. This kit empowers your favorite couple to turn their intimate time into an artistic expression of love. It includes black, non-toxic paint, white cotton canvas, plastic sheeting (so they don’t make a mess), disposable slippers, and a body scrubber. Abstract expressionism never looked so sexy (sorry, not sorry, Jackson Pollock).

Personal Perspective

I'm genuinely thrilled with this unique couple's art kit. It's far from your typical TJ Maxx art print and provides an exciting, hands-on experience. Not only does this kit provide black, non-toxic paint and a white canvas, it also thoughtfully includes plastic sheeting and disposable slippers to keep things tidy. This gift brought an unexpected and artistic twist to our date night, making it a memorable one. It’s abstract expressionism at its finest, and certainly sexier than a Jackson Pollock piece.

Handcrafted Gentleman's Gift Set

  • All-In-One Gift

  • $$$$$
  • Self-Care, Skin-Care

Another option for the skin-care aficionados on your shopping list, this gift set includes a selection of handcrafted bath and body products. They come in travel-friendly bottles for the gay man who is always on the go and are formulated with all-natural ingredients like goat’s milk, shea butter, essential oils, beeswax, and more. The products are tucked into a sweet wooden box for a rustic feel and easy wrapping.


Adidas Originals Men’s Pride Off-Center Jacket

  • WindBreakers That Break Heteronormativity

  • $$$$$
  • Clothing, Pride

We’ve had multiple friends rocking this jacket lately, and all of them looked freaking fabulous. This 80’s style throwback will, without a doubt, be his go-to jacket for any and all pride events. The unique off-center design and bold palette are guaranteed to be an eye-catcher, even in a sea of rainbow accessories.

First-Hand Impression

Excellent, this jacket is a riot of vibrant colors that really catch the eye. Despite its generous fit accommodating my chunky arms comfortably, this jacket's lack of waterproofing was a letdown when I ended up drenched during a rainy dog walk. However, its undeniable cuteness and stylish design make it a great fashion statement or windbreaker.

Unique Wedding Gift Custom Candle

  • We Do Weddings Winner

  • $$$$$
  • Unique, Homegoods

This unique, personalized gift could make a meaningful wedding, civil ceremony, engagement, or anniversary present for your favorite couple. You can customize the dates, names, and even choose a location anywhere in the world for the heart-shaped map graphic.

You could choose from nearly 20 scents, such as champagne kisses, cabin in the woods, honeysuckle and jasmine, vanilla sandalwood, and more. You could also upgrade your selection from a nine-ounce candle to a 16-ounce candle and select your gift wrapping preference for an additional cost.

User Experience

Best described as a thoughtful piece, this scented candle added a unique touch to my anniversary celebration. Although the scent wasn't my wife's favorite, the personalized labels and miniature map detail were charming, albeit the map was a bit challenging to read. The packaging, complete with a surprise 'made with love' bag and a cute box of 'love' matches, was impressively neat and attractive. Lastly, I opted for the wedding cake scent for a friend's gift and it genuinely smelled like a delicious cake, making it a delightful, personalized present.

How We Choose Gifts For Gay Men

At Gift Rabbit, we understand the importance of finding the perfect gift. Our team meticulously researches and reviews a wide array of gift ideas tailored specifically for gay men. We check and compare products, considering factors like price, style, and customer feedback. Through our extensive survey and consultation process, we’ve been able to pinpoint what matters most when selecting gifts for this demographic. Our gift guide evaluates products from the user’s perspective, offering a diverse variety of unique options, which are scored based on our strict criteria and hands-on experience. Trust in Gift Rabbit to help you find the ideal gift that meets your needs and exceeds expectations.

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Carly Schwarz

Carly Schwarz is a part-time conservation biologist, part-time creator of funky crafts, and full-time goofball writer for Gift Rabbit. She earned a degree in Environmental Biology from Tulane University in New Orleans and has worked on conservation projects worldwide since. Before she entered the world of online writing, Carly was the Research Coordinator of an elephant sanctuary in northern Thailand.