Long distance relationships are hard! While nothing can replace having your loved one right with you, phone calls and video chats can help ease the pain of not having them there. Long distance relationship gifts are another idea to help your relationship keep its fire. Long distance gifts don’t have to be fancy or expensive (although we like those, too!), they just need to be thoughtful and heartfelt.
A card, a special picture of the two of you, or a gift card for a cup of coffee are all ways to let your beloved know that you’re thinking of them without spending a ton of money. Above all else, think about what would make your partner feel loved and important when getting them gifts!
50 Thoughtful Gift Ideas for Long Distance Relationships
Thoughtful long distance gifts to help keep the spark alive!
Long Distance Touch Bracelet Set
Let your boyfriend or girlfriend know you’re thinking of them with these bracelets! Each of you gets a matching bracelet, and when you want to let your partner know you’re missing them, send a notification through the accompanying app. The app will make their bracelet light up and vibrate, letting them know you care.
Bean Box Gourmet Coffee Sampler
If you’re used to coffee dates or having coffee together, send them a coffee sampler! You can both brew up your coffee, then video chat and talk while you have a virtual coffee date instead. This box comes with 4 1.8 ounce bags of whole bean coffee from growers around the world.
Love Across States 3D Art
This custom wall hanging features the paper rolling known as quilling. The artist uses quilling to form a 3D image of connected hearts across two different states. It’s a sweet visual representation of your relationship, and your partner will think of you every time they look at it! It would be a lovely gift for an anniversary or special occasion.
These friendship lamps are connected so that when you touch yours, your loved one’s lamp will light up at the same time. There are more than 200 color options that can be programmed so you can each choose a color you like. Stay connected with your loved one by flashing the lights at bedtime or turning them on at the same time even though you’re miles apart.
Love Has No Distance Mugs
These adorable mugs feature two people separated by distance but communicating by an old-fashioned string phone. They feature a man and woman, so one mug can be for him and one can be for her. You can each drink your morning coffee, knowing that your favorite person is drinking theirs in their matching mug!
A Year of Connection
Send your beloved a card each week for a year! This kit comes with all the cards you’ll need for a year, plus a journal so you can record your own thoughts. At the end of the year, your significant other will have all the mail you sent them, and you’ll have a record of how you felt each week as you wrote to them.
Hopefully, part of your long-distance relationship involves traveling back and forth to see each other! Help make your Sweet Babboo’s trip a little more entertaining with an Audible subscription. Whether they’re flying, driving, or taking a train, they can listen to bestsellers or classic books on headphones or in the car to help the time pass.
A Hug in a Jar Candle
These candles make sweet long distance relationship gifts! The side of the candle announces that it’s a hug in a jar, with hands drawn on the side to demonstrate. The candle smells like lavender and vanilla. Your significant other or best friend can put the candle out in their house and think of you whenever they light it.
This small, polished rock is a romantic reminder to your loved one of how much they mean to you! The poem inscribed on the rock reads, “No matter how far you are, every day around the clock, always remember, that you are my rock.” The rock is small enough to slip into a pocket or purse and carry around so that every time they see it, they’ll think of you!
La Crema Red Wine
You may not be able to go out to a wine bar together or unwind and share a bottle at home, but you can still have happy hour together! Order your loved one a bottle of wine from Saucey to be delivered to their house. Then, set a time for a virtual meet-up on FaceTime or Zoom while you both drink wine together and chat about your day.
Lovebox Color & Photo
This device connects to an app. Then, loved ones can send photos, a message, an animation, or a drawing via the app. The heart on the Lovebox begins to turn when a message is received, and your loved one can open the top of the box to see the message. They can also turn the heart on the side of the box to send virtual hearts back to the app in response.
International Snacks Care Package
If you can’t be together to travel or to try exotic restaurants in your area, order up a snack care package! This box of Turkish treats features snacks that aren’t common in the U.S., including different crackers, candy, and cookies. It’s an unexpected present that they’re sure to love!
Oculus Quest 2
Visit new places together without leaving your homes with this VR headset! You can virtually travel to new spots and see the sights if you and your loved one both have an Oculus Quest. You can also play virtual reality games together with this gaming set.
Best Friend Keychain Set
Since this comes as a set of 3, it makes a great keychain set for a group of best friends who are all long distances from each other! Each charm on each keychain says something similar but different – “No matter when,” “No matter where,” and “No matter what.” Show your besties that you know the bond the 3 of you have will always be there. This would also work as a great long-distance gift for a family with scattered members.
Hug in a Box
This heart is the perfect long distance relationship gift that someone can carry with them wherever they go! The solid pewter heart comes in a box with a poem explaining that your loved one can think of you whenever they hold it. It’s a sweet way to bring a token of your relationship everywhere with them.
Long Distance Friendship Frame
This pine wood frame can hold a special picture of you and your significant other. Get two matching frames, and the other frame will light up when you touch yours. The frames link to Wi-Fi, so they respond to people’s touch. You can leave one picture in the frame or easily swap them out by removing the back to replace the picture.
Inspirational Beaded Bracelet
Write a message for your loved one and tuck it in the secret compartment on this bracelet so they can keep it close. The bracelet comes with a paper scroll where you can jot your message. Roll the scroll up with a toothpick and fit it back into the tube on the bracelet. You can get one for your boyfriend or girlfriend, or buy two matching ones to exchange. They make perfect gifts for long distance couples!
Date Night Box
Since you don’t see your boyfriend or girlfriend as often as many people do, you want to make the most of the time you do have together during a visit! This date night box will get you out of the usual rut, with 35 date night challenges. Plan fun, interesting, romantic dates with the help of these suggestions!
Perk up your partner’s day with a card you send them, just because you love them! The card reads, “I wanted to send you something awesome, but the postman told me to get out of the mailbox.” You can add your own sweet message inside to let them know you love them. Cards make wonderful long distance gifts to send any time of year!
Shiatsu Neck and Back Massager
It’s not quite the same, but since you’re not able to give your loved one a neck rub at the end of a stressful day, this neck massager can step in! The massager has 3 speeds, plus heat to soothe sore muscles. It can help with muscle recovery after exercising or with loosening up sore muscles at the end of a long day at work.
Bose Wireless Noise Canceling Headphones
If you and your partner fly or take the train back and forth to see each other, they’ll appreciate these headphones for the trip! The noise-canceling headphones are perfect for listening to music, podcasts, or audiobooks without interruption. The balance is calibrated so the bass stays consistent when the volume is turned down, and you don’t get over-modulation when the music is turned up.
Coordinates Copper Cuff Bracelet
You can give your partner a bracelet engraved with the exact coordinates of where you are or the coordinates of a place that’s important to both of you! This copper cuff bracelet also has space on the inside for a secret message just from you. It makes a sweet birthday or Christmas long distance relationship gift that they’re sure to treasure!
Starbucks Gift Card
You can’t meet up at Starbucks right now, but you can each go get your regular order and then have a little coffee date via Zoom or FaceTime! Send your beloved a Starbucks card, and then the two of you can plan a time to grab your coffee and talk. It’s a thoughtful gesture that can be a bond between you even though the miles are many.
Homesick Scented Candle
Send your partner a Homesick candle, filled with the scents of the city where you live! Homesick candles replicate the smells of each city – for example, Southern California smells like oranges and lemons, reminiscent of the citrus groves that used to fill the area and the trees many people still have in their yards. You could also get a Homesick candle for each of you, representing each other’s cities.
Engraved Wallet Card And Keychain
This is a cute, cheap little long distance gift that will make each of you smile when you come across it. One part features a wallet card with a saying engraved on it – “Carry this with you so that no matter where you are, I’ll always be there. I love you.” The card has a small silver heart punched out of it for the other person to keep, so each of you has a part of the card. Tuck the card or the heart into a wallet or pocket to carry around and think of your loved one.
Foldable Weekender Bag
Whether the two of you travel a lot to visit each other or plan trips together when you can, a weekend duffel bag is going to come in very handy! This bag zips down to the size of a large envelope when it’s not in use. When they want to use it, it opens to provide plenty of room for several days’ worth of clothes. There are multiple pockets to help them stay organized, making this a great gift idea for a long distance relationship!
Reusable Countdown Clock
Your boyfriend or girlfriend can track exactly how long until you both see each other again with this clock! The large screen means the clock is easy to read. The clock can also be reprogrammed, so after a visit, they can program it for the next one.
Letters to Open When
Since you can’t be there every day, write these letters to give to your loved one to open at certain times. Prompts like “Open when you need a good pep talk” and “Open when you’re looking for inspiration” give you a chance to write a meaningful message. Your significant other can hang onto them and open them when they’re having a hard time or just want to read your words.
Deeper Connections Conversation Starters
Don’t let distance keep you from growing in your relationship with each other! Give your partner this set of conversation starters, and when you talk on the phone or video chat, you can learn more about each other. The cards cover 4 different categories – Relationship, Past, Personal, and Miscellaneous – and ask everything from who your favorite teacher was to what you think is essential in a relationship.
2 Time Zone Wooden Watches
These beautiful wood watches feature two clocks, which can be set to two different time zones. Give one to your beloved, and they can set one to their time zone and one to yours. Although these are labeled as guys’ watches, they work equally well for a woman who likes an oversized watch. You could even get matching ones so you can both track each other’s time zones.
Spotify Gift Card
In ancient times, like the 1980s, couples used to make each other mixtapes – cassette tapes full of meaningful songs for those they loved. Now, you can make them a Spotify playlist! Get your partner a Spotify gift card so they can pay for several months of membership. Then, you can compile one (or several) playlists full of songs that are important to both of you or that express how you feel.
WiFi Digital Picture Frame
This digital photo frame lets anyone with the email address for it send pictures to be displayed. You could get a frame for your partner, then send pictures from across the miles that will show up on their photo frame. Share pictures of the two of you, or send a picture of you kissing them goodnight or other sweet gestures.
Heart Locket Necklace
Lockets may have been around for hundreds of years, but there’s something so romantic and charming about them! Even in this digital age, giving your sweetheart a locket she can put a picture of you in, and wear each day, is a swoon-worthy move. This one features a 14k gold-filled pendant with floral etchings on the heart-shaped locket and space for two pictures inside.
Kissing Mugs Set
These two mugs fit together to show two faces in an adorable kiss, making them a wonderful gift for long distance couples! One mug is white with red accents, while the other is red with white accents. Each comes with a contrasting coffee spoon as well. Buy the set, and you can take one with you and give one to your sweetie.
Custom Map Cufflinks
Get him cufflinks featuring a map of the city where you live as a long distance gift! You can also have a custom message just for him engraved on the back of the cufflinks. These are a subtle but sweet way for him to have a part of you while he goes about his day at work.
The Original MASHTAPE
We mentioned that it used to be popular to make your snuggle puppy a mixtape to play to show your love. This USB flash drive comes in the shape of a classic cassette for a good dose of nostalgia! Make a music playlist on the flash drive, or save photos or videos of the two of you on the drive for your loved one to see.
Thinking of You Card
This card is a fun little surprise to send in the mail for your boyfriend or girlfriend! It features an old-fashioned drawing of an octopus and says, “If I could hug you with eight arms at once without totally freaking you out…I would.” It’s a combination of sweet and goofy and is sure to brighten their day!
Hug This Pillow Gift
We know. Hugging a pillow isn’t the same as hugging your loved one. But giving this pillow is a sweet gesture, and it will mean a lot coming from you. The pillow says, “Hug this pillow until you can hug me,” and is a nice way to remind your sweetheart that you won’t be gone forever. Pretty soon, they’ll get the real thing.
Still Having Coffee Together Spoon
This little espresso spoon is an inexpensive, fun long distance relationship gift to send someone as a random surprise! The spoon says “Still having coffee together” and is just the right size for stirring in cream or sugar when they have their morning coffee. Remind them that you may be far away, but you’re there in spirit.
Couples Picture Frame
One of the best gifts for long distance relationships is, very simply, a picture frame with a sweet pic of the two of you! This wood frame says, “All of me loves all of you,” and features a 3D heart. There’s room for a 4 x 6 vertical picture of the two of you to go in the frame.
Godiva Chocolatier Chocolate Gold Gift Box
Surprise your sweetheart with a box of chocolates, sent to their door! This Godiva box contains 36 pieces of gourmet chocolate, with fruit, ganache, caramel, and other delicious fillings. The chocolates come in a variety of dark, milk, and white chocolate. It comes in Godiva’s signature gold box with a matching gold ribbon.
DoorDash Gift Cards
It’s hard not being able to go out to dinner together! With a DoorDash gift card, however, you can both order up your food. Then, set a time to video chat and have a virtual dinner date. You could even order from the same chain restaurant if you want to feel even more like you’re dining together.
Long Distance Necklace
This necklace features three pendants – two that show the outlines of states, plus a heart pendant in-between. Pick your state and the state where your loved one is currently living. They’ll be strung on this necklace, with the heart in the middle. You can also choose from silver, gold, or rose gold plating.
Message in a Glass Bottle
This glass bottle features 100 paper capsules inside. Write a special note on each paper capsule – it can be as simple as “I Love You” – and place them all in the jar. When your beloved darling is having a bad day, they can open one of the capsules to get a special message from you to cheer them up!
Sweetheart Romance Flower Bouquet
Whether you live in the same city or are looking for the best gifts for a long distance relationship – flowers are always a good idea! Send a cheerful bouquet to brighten up a room or a romantic red and pink arrangement for a more lovey-dovey vibe. Also – flowers aren’t just for the ladies! Send them to a guy who could use them to brighten up his apartment.
Try this cool way to have a date night from your respective computers! Book one of these online experiences and choose the same date and time for both of you. Then, log on and learn to make cocktails, paint your pet, or bake together for an evening. You’ll not only have a nice time together, but you can also use your new mixology or baking skills the next time you see each other in person as well.
Why I Miss You Fill in the Love Book
This little book features pages of prompts with fill-in blanks. Fill them all in, and you’ll have a whole book of meaningful notes to your beloved. You can be funny, you can be sweet, you can be naughty – fill in the blanks to suit your relationship and personalities! The best part is that your partner will have a book to keep and look back at when you’re not there in person.
Hand Etched Stemless Wine Glasses
These adorable etched wine glasses show a stick figure man on one wine glass holding a cup phone. The cord of the phone makes a heart as it leads to the second glass, where the girl is holding the other end. The glasses are lead-free and stemless, so they can’t be knocked over as easily.
Going Away Couples Picture Frame
This photo frame makes a perfect gift idea for a long distance relationship! The wood frame says, “I love you more than the miles between us.” You can present it to your loved one along with a sweet picture to go in the frame.
Long Distance Relationship Gifts FAQs
Do Long-Distance Relationship Gifts Help to Maintain the Relationship?
Long distance relationship gifts definitely help maintain the relationship! It’s also important to realize that these gifts don’t have to be expensive to be meaningful. A card, a mug, or a handwritten note or letter letting your boyfriend or girlfriend know how much you love and miss them will be treasured and reread over and over!
What Is a Good Valentine’s Day Gift in a Long-Distance Relationship?
Most of the gifts listed above make great Valentine’s Day gift ideas for a long distance relationship! Sending flowers or a box of chocolate to your valentine is a wonderful idea. Jewelry also makes a great gift. Consider an inexpensive bead bracelet that you could get to match so that you each have something to remind each other of your love.
What is a Good Birthday Gift in a Long-Distance Relationship?
A friendship lamp that lights up when your significant other touches it is a fun birthday gift for long distance couples. A photo frame of the two of you is also a great idea. You can also get your sweetheart a present that they personally would enjoy. Presents that help their hobbies, or clothing they like, or a gift to help them relax and unwind at the end of the day are all great ideas for presents.
What Would Be the Perfect Christmas Gift in a Long-Distance Relationship?
If you really wanted to pull out the stops on a Christmas gift in a long distance relationship, you could either fly to visit your partner or send them a ticket to visit you! You could also get them matching friendship bracelets that vibrate when one of you touches them. Finally, an online experience like a class that the two of you can share would be a fun long distance gift for Christmas!